What Is Sexy?

What is sexy to you?

Tara: To me, personality is the sexiest thing about a person. The hottest guy in the world could be interested in me, but if he doesn’t have anything going on in the personality department, I won’t be interested in him for long.

Savannah: Sexy to me is confidence, not arrogance.  It doesn’t mean you have to like everything about your body, just be confident in who you are.  I also think it is sexy to leave something to the imagination.  Don’t go out trying to display everything you’ve got, display just enough to get someone interested in what the rest might be.

Jason: When someone is comfortable in their own skin – that is sexy. When someone tries too hard to be “sexy,” in a generic way, it’s just boring. But when people are good at being themselves … it’s just obvious and really attractive.

What physical trait do you notice first?

Tara: The physical trait I notice first would have to be teeth, hands down. Call me shallow, but he HAS to have nice teeth.

Savannah: The first trait I look for is a person’s eyes.  Eyes are truly the window to the soul, and they tell you so much.  If I am just at the mall, usually with guys I notice their hair…..I’m a sucker for guys with long hair.  With women, it is the curve of the hips.  I think having that little curve from the waist to the hips is extremely sexy.

Jason: I’m a tits and ass kind of guy, so I tend to notice a woman’s shape first. I like curves, like the classical figures of women in art.

What personality trait is the biggest turn on?

Tara: The personality trait that I think is the biggest turn on is wit. If you can crack a joke about me, and then turn around and make a joke about yourself, and laugh while doing it, you’re going to keep me interested for a very long time.

Savannah: As for personality trait, I find decisive people very sexy.  I like a person who can keep up with the conversation, even if it isn’t necessarily something they want to talk about.  I also like a person who can teach me something and isn’t afraid to let me know if I am wrong.

Jason: I kind of like bitchy women. If a woman is sarcastic, confident, and maybe a little  hard to get, it piques my interest. I like the challenge of trying to win her over.

Tara is a twenty-something writer and student living in Pennsylvania.

Savannah is Whoopie School’s lifestyle writer who has been swinging for over 4 years.

Jason is co-founder of Whoopie School and infrequent blogger.