Top 3 Mistakes When Fingering a Woman

Touching a woman in her inner mysterious place is the most baffling task for many men. There are some simple mistakes you can avoid to improve your standing among the fingering masters. Oh, and don’t be afraid to ask for directions.

1. Don’t be too rough. We can say with 99% certainty that however and wherever you are touching a woman, you are using too much pressure. You can never go wrong with touching her lightly and getting her to beg for it to be harder, but you can go wrong manhandling her most delicate parts.

2. Don’t take “fingering” so literally. Don’t poke her with your fingers. Chances are that she doesn’t want you to fuck her with your fingers, and in fact you will probably please her more if you focus on her clit. Most women learn to masturbate by touching her clit and lips, so follow her lead and touch her like she likes to be touched.

3. Don’t proceed is she’s not wet. If you go to finger a woman, and she is not wet, STOP. Rubbing her clit dry is not going to get her wet, it is going to irritate her and her clit - two things you don’t want mad at you. If she’s not wet, she may not be ready for handplay, or she may simply need some lube (saliva is a perfectly acceptable substitute).

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