How to Really Seduce a Woman

What tips or advice would you give a man on initiating sex?

Veronica: There are a lot of things a man can do to initiate sex. One tip I would give (because it’s been a recurring thing in my personal life): giving a back massage does not mean you’ll be having sex 15 minutes later - for some reason men always think it leads to that!

Tara: Woo me. The right words and kissing is all it takes.

Holly: Make a woman feel sexy, and you’ll get her more turned on than just going in for a lame boob or butt grab. Compliment her, and tell her how much you desire her.

What is the best way you’ve been seduced by a lover?

Veronica: Honestly, it started with a few hours of intelligent conversation and led to him saying, “just relax” … and taking care of everything while I just enjoyed myself!

Tara: A backrub. He knew my back hurt so he massaged it and then at the end he started kissing me down my back. It was incredibly sexy.

Holly: A prepared bubble bath and a backrub. Works every time. (Sorry Veronica, but it’s true).

What is the worst move a guy has tried to pull on you?

Veronica: The worst thing a guy has pulled is trying to have anal without even a discussion beforehand; he didn’t even know whether or not I was into it - it led to me kicking him out of bed.

Tara: One guy thought I would have sex with him only because he took a Viagra.

Holly: Ugh. I hate when guys go right for touching or going down on you when you’re not even remotely turned on. It’s just uncomfortable.

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