Should Women Initiate Sex?

Do you think women should make the first move sometimes when it comes to sex?

Veronica: Definitely. Nothing turns a guy on more than a woman who can make the first move.

Doug: Sure, why not?

Tara: Of course! It’s a two-way street!

What advice would you give a woman on initiating sex?

Veronica: This is a toughie, because basically a woman can do or say anything to initiate sex and usually a man would go for it. I think being upfront about your motives is sexy enough to get the guy going.

Doug: I think men on the whole are thick - picture a large animal, like a moose. Subtlety is often lost on men, so it’s best to be direct and straightforward instead of suggestive and romantic. Save the candles for your bath.

Tara: Kissing and putting my hands in places they shouldn’t be always worked for me.

What is the worst move you’ve heard or experienced a woman pull?

Veronica: When women are interested in a person and they play hard to get, then become over-the-top flirty, then play hard to get - it’s a turn-off to send so many mixed signals.

Doug: Being black-out drunk at a party with a guy, shoving her hand down his pants, then shit talking him for not making out with her there.

Tara: I was at a bar one night and the jukebox was on and I screamed at my then boyfriend that all I wanted to do was go home and have sex. Well, mid-sentence the song ended and the whole bar heard me. In my defense, at least I know what I want.

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