If you think women complain a lot, you should hear what we have to say about you in bed. Whenever I get down to some good girl talk, there are certain inevitable complaints about men and sex that come up. The top 3 sex mistakes men make are common topics of discussion, and by discussion, I mean criticism. So what are they?
1. No interest in her pleasure. Seriously?! If you’re not interested in your partner’s pleasure, then why not masturbate? It would be much easier. If you know you’re going to want to pass out after your orgasm, make sure she comes first. If you don’t know how to make her orgasm, talk to her about what she likes and what she gets off on. If you really don’t care about a woman’s pleasure (but want to have sex with women), do us a favor and just shoot yourself in the face.
2. Just doing the “hard and fast.” Jackhammer sex is just about the worst thing for women. My friends and I call it “high school sex,” as in, “Oh, it was so awful. It was like high school sex. I’m never going out with him again.” Start off slow with your lady friend, and understand that most of the sensation in her vagina is in the outer third, so there’s no need to be hammering away at her cervix.
3. Not paying attention to her clit. Numbers range, but 50%-80% of women cannot orgasm through intercourse alone. That means that during sex play, you should still pay attention to her clit, either using your hands, her hands, toys, or trying positions that are better for clitoral stimulation, such as modified missionary or woman on top.
A common cause of all three of these mistakes is often a misunderstanding of female anatomy. Sexual intercourse feels different to women than men because the organ on our bodies that is most like the penis is actually the clit, not the vagina. So while you may be having a good time humping away, it can be less than thrilling for many of us. I’m sorry if porn didn’t teach you this, but now you have the chance to redeem yourself by taking the time and care to learn what pleases her.
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That’s all fine and well but you only get out of sex what you put into it. If you’re just lying there like a sack of potatoes then you’re obviously not going to enjoy it. Men tend to do all the work that’s why we always enjoy sex. Try moving yourselves to a position you can enjoy and get into a rhythm that suits you. Most men would be happy to indulge you. So quit you’re bitching and put some effort into it.
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