Baby, It’s Cold Outside

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Just as the snow was beginning to thaw and the sun was peeking out, a cold snap has moved in, at least where I am. The crippling cold has kept me indoors unless absolutely necessary, but the extra time around the house has facilitated some creativity on different foreplay techniques to try when it’s cold outside.

To get things heated up, Try one or all of these ideas the next time you fool around.

• Hot bath. On a cold night, a hot bath is a great way to get warm and loose. You can take turns in the tub while the other gives their partner a delicious rubdown, or hop in together. Add some essential oils to entice your senses. The hot water will relax your muscles and increase circulation, which will improve your sensitivity to touch.

• Hot wax. Light a scented soy massage candle for mood lighting, aroma, and to create a warm massage oil. Soy candles burn at a lower temperature, so the wax won’t burn. Use the warm wax as a massage oil and rub each other down to heat up things up.

• Hot tea. Before you head to bed, grab a mug of hot tea and experiment with temperature in your sex play. Lick your lover all over after a hot sip of tea.

Try these foreplay tips to keep your sex life hot, at least until Spring arrives.