Friday Foreplay Tip: Sexting!

Remember the old slogan for the archaic telephone “reach out and touch someone”? Well, sexting makes that all the more easy and interesting. As a form of foreplay, sending suggestive or downright dirty text messages and pics is a good way to get your partner in the mood and give her something to fantasize about as she wiles the time away in her cubicle.

Because the brain is the biggest and most important sex organ, activating it with some hot text stimuli long before you get to first base is a big turn-on. It’s also a great way to tease and stay connected when you’re doing the long-distance sex thing.

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While the mechanics of texting are probably not a mystery, there is an art to sexting. Most importantly, put some thought into what will get your partner hot. Here are some other sexting tips:

Describe a fantasy. Sure, there’s a character limit, but you can sneak in a fantasy or two. For example: “I want to make love to you at the party tonight” will turn on any exhibitionist. Write about a shared fantasy you both have been wanting to try, which is sure to turn your partner on.

Give a directive. If you’ve got a dominant streak in you, let it out in your text. “Don’t wear panties when you meet me tonight” or “Be a good boy and be naked when I get home” is the perfect way to let your luva know they’re in for a sexy night.

Start a sex story. Because of the character limit and the back-and-forth nature of texting, it’s a good medium to start your own erotic story and see where it goes. Send a message like, “I’m kissing your neck and unbuttoning your shirt.” Find out what happens next when your sexmate texts back.

Send a pic. A quick pic might be just the visual stimulation your partner needs to get in the mood. The alluring cleavage that can be seen as you sit at your desk is easy to capture and as sexy as trying to get a flattering ass shot in the ladie’s room. And guys, your lady might like a shot of your best bedroom eyes as much as a cock shot – find out what her favorite body part is.

Check before you hit “send.” This is fairly obvious, but sexting is an extra-important time to double-check that you really picked “Mike” instead of “Mom” as the receiver of your amorous message. You’ve been warned.

That’s your foreplay tip for this week. Happy sexting, and enjoy your weekend!