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Class is in session. Let’s start with the first lesson: everyone can learn how to please their sexual partners, with a little study and a lot of practice (the practice is the best part!). Many of us have an idea, if not some experience, of what sex is all about, unfortunately some misconceptions creep in as a result of the way we are introduced to sex in movies, romance novels, porn, and health class, to name a few. None of these sources truly reflect the myriad of ways people experience sexual pleasure, and they certainly don’t do much to break down gender–based stereotypes and expectations about sex. The result is that many women quietly wait for a man to “unlock” the secrets of their bodies, without giving any feedback or taking responsibility for their own pleasure out of fear of looking like a “slut”. Men, in turn, think that women are really into being fucked hard by a huge cock and are largely ignorant of all the subtle, yet explosive, ways women experience sexual pleasure outside of vaginal intercourse.
Our sex tips and techniques give you the foundation you need to perform better sexually. We cover the basics – foreplay, mutual masturbation, oral sex, and more – and we also give you all the advice you need when it comes to intimacy, sexual communication, and sexual confidence. Our sex tips articles cover all these topics. Or, if you want to start at the beginning, visit the sex tips basics sections below.
Sex Tips Basics
- How to Do Foreplay. Foreplay is not the simple formula of kiss, kiss, nipple, nipple, then penetrate. Good foreplay makes any following sexual act more intense and incredible. Foreplay, with some thought, can even be the main event – learn how to make it count.
- Handplay. Manual stimulation – you know, how to give a good handjob and how to finger a woman – is a lot more fun than it sounds, or than you may remember it to be in high school. With the right technique, digital stimulation is a great way to get off and to learn about your partner's most sensitive spots.
- Oral Sex Guide. Oral sex is pretty good however one can get it, and fan–fucking–tastic when the giver knows what they're doing. Knowing that you could be on the giving or receiving end is all the incentive you should need to become an oral master.
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- One Night Stand Sex for Women: A one–night stand may seem like a good idea at the time (the time being 5 cocktails deep, usually), but if not executed properly, can end in heartache, headache, or, worse, pregnancy. There’s nothing wrong with a woman getting her groove on, but make sure you take measures to protect yourself emotionally and physically.
- One Night Stand Sex for Men: A one–night stand may seem like no–strings–attached sex in easy, single–serving installments, but the fact is that if not executed properly, a one–night stand can lead to a lot of headaches, or worse. It takes a little bit more than 1 part seemingly available person + 5 parts alcohol to make a one–night stand go off successfully.
- Tips for Having Quick Sex: Having a quickie is fun, but sometimes no easy feat. There are lots of things to consider, like timing, location, and getting each other so horny you can’t even wait to take your clothes off. The quickie can keep the spark alive in a relationship, and can help create longer lovemaking sessions (for next time).
- How to Have a Romantic Evening: If you want to surprise your partner with a romantic evening, but aren’t sure how to start, here’s an easy five-step plan to create your night. Romance is all about tapping into your five senses, so let them be your guide.
- Do You Have a Boring Sex Life?: A lot of readers write in with the same scenario: I love my partner, but I'm bored with our sex life. Boring sex is often the result of one thing: predictability. Whether it's the when, where, or how that's become monotonous, the easiest way to shake up your boring sex life is to try something new.
- 7 Ways to Have Long-Distance Sex: Learning how to have long-distance sex is useful if you are in a long-distance relationship, away on business, or otherwise just want to get freaky with someone on the other side of the country. Read on for seven ways to have long-distance sex.
- How to Talk About Boring Sex: Before you act out any of your fantasies of sex with your co-worker, find out how to tell your partner you are bored with your sex life.
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