Having a quickie is fun, but sometimes no easy feat. There are lots of things to consider, like timing, location, and getting each other so horny you can’t even wait to take your clothes off. The quickie can keep the spark alive in a relationship, and can help create longer lovemaking sessions (for next time).
Tips for Quickie Sex
The urge for a quickie can be so overwhelming, that you need some guidelines to make sure it is executed successfully. Sometimes it takes a little work to get all parties involved quickie-ready. Here are some tips to help you in any situation.
- Express yourself. If the desire for a quickie comes on, the best way to get your partner on board is to express your urgency. No, that doesn’t mean asking your partner, “You wanna bang?” Instead, tell your partner how much you want him/her, how turned on you are, and what exactly you want to do right then.
- Find a good spot. If you’re ready to get it on, but you aren’t in your bedroom, the most pressing issue is where to go. The possibility of getting caught only adds to the excitement. Find a spot that is relatively private, and make sure it’s somewhere you won’t be arrested or traumatize any children.
- Dress for access. There’s nothing wrong with creating easy access just in case a quickie ensues. For ladies, a skirt or dress makes spontaneous sex a breeze, especially if you leave the panties at home.
- Be prepared. Just because you want a spontaneous sexual moment doesn't mean you can't be prepared. The best thing to have on hand for an impromptu sex session is lube. Why take up precious time getting things wet? Condoms are a given, of course.
- Do it standing up. Ok, you don't have to stand up, but be prepared to be in close quarters, or at least out of the bedroom. That means it's the perfect time to try out different positions. And if you get a good workout while you're doing it, well that's just an added bonus.
Sex doesn’t have to be complicated ... a quick sex session is an exhilarating and fun way to get off with your mate.
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