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If thinking about your sex life is making you go "ho-hum" instead of "Mmmmm," then it might be time to try and spice things up. Going through a dull spell in the bedroom happens to many couples, but don't let it become the norm. There are a lot of ways to give your sex life a jumpstart.
A good starting point is to think about what you feel is missing. Is it time and romance? Well, plan a date night. Is it spontaneity? Surprise your partner with an intimate or suggestive moment, and see where it leads. Is it experimentation? Grab a copy of the Kama Sutra, or head to an adult store to see if a toy or movie might just be what you need. The point is that while it's easy to get in a sex rut, there are plenty of ways to get out of it with a little thought and initiative. Here are some more tips for spicing up your sex life.
Hotter Sex Tips
- Make a game of it. Make up a game to play to heighten the anticipation. Come up with naughty rules for your favorite board game, get an adult game at a store, or make up your own. A fun DIY game is to each write 10 things on slips of paper you'd want to the other person to do, ranging from kissing on up, and place them in a hat. Take turns picking an item, and performing what it says. Everyone wins.
- Try a new position. This seems fairly obvious, but it's something that many couples forget to do after they figure out what they like. There are literally hundreds of variations to try, so do some juicy research and suggest a new position to your partner.
- Accessorize. Introducing sexy accessories into the bedroom can energize and excite both partners. Go shopping together and look at lingerie, massage oils, or personal lubricants that turn you on.
- Head to an adult store. Consider toys or videos you want to experiment with. Try one new thing, whatever it is. You might just learn something you didn't know about your partner while checking things out.
- Get out of the bedroom. Sometimes the best way to heat things up in the bedroom is to get out of it. Try initiating sex acts in different rooms in the house, whether it's making out on the couch while watching TV or going down on your partner in the kitchen. The change of scenery can be quite a turn-on.
- Roleplay. Roleplaying can be fun, and also simpler than renting a cop outfit from a costume store (although if you're into that, by all means). If your partner usually initiates, then switch roles and take the lead one day. If you're pretty assertive in bed, try a session of being passive and helpless. Even these simple changes in persona can be quite a surprising turn-on for your partner.
You are only limited by your fantasies and creativity when it comes to spicing up your sex life. Don't wait ... introduce the fun back into your sex play.
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