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So you think you've mastered the attitude to give a good blowjob, and want some specific blowjob techniques? Fair enough, you've come to the right place. Here are a few pointers that you can use to begin developing your oral expertise.
Basic Oral Sex Techniques
- Tease him. There's nothing wrong with a little tongue-teasing, especially in the form of licking his shaft, kissing his head, or teasing his balls with your tongue. You CAN jump right in and take him in your mouth whole, or you can tease him a bit longer.
- Get things wet. You can either run your tongue and mouth over the whole shaft before you begin, or let the drool run out of your mouth down his cock as you move up and down. The saliva will feel good for him, and help you maintain a smooth rhythm.
- Start slow. Start by taking him into your mouth slowly, increasing the length you take into your mouth. Or, you can deep–dive right away, and slowly take his whole member into your mouth. Either way, start at a slower pace so he can fully appreciate the build up in intensity.
- Use you hands. Use your hand to stimulate the lower part of his shaft while you focus your oral efforts on the penis head and just beyond, which is the most sensitive area. You can also gently hold or massage his balls while you go down on him.
- Get into a smooth rhythm. Now that you're bobbing up and down on his member, get into a smooth rhythm that's comfortable for you. The wetter it is, the easier it will be to move smoothly, so don't be embarassed by a little drool overflow. He'll find it sexy, trust us.
- Use all parts of your mouth. While it may seem like a simple up and down movement, there's actually a lot in play during a blowjob. Your lips should be in a soft O shape, and can be closed tighter on his shaft to create different pressure. Your tongue can be moving throughout, or flattened against his penis to cover the most surface area as you move. The roof of your mouth and the inside of your cheeks also provide different sensations ... use your hand to rub his head against either of those areas. Your teeth can hurt him - a lot - so avoid any teeth grinding.
- Build the intensity. As you feel him get into it - as in, grind his hips, moan, tense his muscles, and get harder - build the intensity of the blowjob. Increase your pace a little, create a little suction with your mouth, and tighten your grip on his shaft if you are using your hands. Once you find a comfortable pace, don't change it! Instead ...
- Work through the finish. Whether you decide to spit or swallow or finish with your hands, make sure you are using fast, consistent strokes to get him off at the end. If you decide to finish him in your hand, make sure you have a firm grip and are stroking at a good pace. If you spit/swallow, keep stimulating his penis through the orgasm for a few strokes.
Once he has orgasmed, stop everything. Most guys find it uncomfortable to be stimulated after orgasm. Plus, you deserve a break after a job well done! Bask together in the afterglow of your perfect blowjob.
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