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There are a lot of creative ways to get your man off manually, but let’s start with the basics. The key to a good, no–fills handjob is grip. Many women are typically too gentle when giving handjobs, which is actually more painful for men because the loose grip causes chaffing on his shaft.
Handjob Basics
- Tease him. Guys like foreplay too, so tease him before you stroke him. Turn him on by delaying when you touch him.
- Use lube. Lube is a must for handjobs. It makes it more pleasurable for him, and makes it a lot easier for her to create a smooth rhythm. If you don’t have access to lube, use saliva.
- Get a good grip. With your well–lubed hand, get a firm grip right below the head of his member. Start stroking up and down. The lube will make it easy for you to go up over the head, where it is most sensitive. Close your fist as you get closer to the top, and then use the tip of his cock to “open” your fist on your downward stroke.
- Build to a good, consistent pace. Ask him if he wants you to go faster or slower. Don't assume you need to stroke really fast; a medium pace or varied pace usually works fine until he approaches orgasm. While you are milking his shaft, you can use your other hand to cup his balls and apply gentle pressure.
- Talk dirty. While you’re jerking him off, talk dirty to him to make it more exciting. To get started. you can tell him how wet you’re getting, or describe how hard his dick is in your hands.
- Don’t stop when he starts to orgasm. You don’t finish a race right at the finish line, you run through the finish line. The same principle applies when it comes to handjobs – keep stroking through his orgasm. After he’s come, you can slow the pace a bit, but give him a moment to enjoy it before you stop.
These tips are a good start, but the best person to tell you how he likes his handjobs is him! Check in with your partner to see if he likes what you are doing, or ask him to show you how he likes to be touched. If you approach giving handjobs with playfulness and an open-mind, you will be a master in no time.
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