We all know you like getting blowjobs, but they don’t call it a job for nothing. It’s dirty work (the best kind), so why not follow some basic tips to improve your partner’s experience going down on you? We guarantee more blowjobs if you have good oral etiquette.
Blow Job Etiquette and Manners
- Practice good hygiene. Make sure you wash your genitals thoroughly at least once a day, including any nooks or crannies in skinfolds, especially if you are uncut. Try to pull out any stray pubes if you can.
- Give feedback. Don’t just lie there and be stoic. Moan, move around, and tell her what you like. You don’t need to put on a performance, but do let her know you are enjoying her efforts. She’ll be more turned on by going down on you if she knows you really like it.
- Don’t do the head push. This is a common complaint from women, and is a serious blowjob offense that manifests itself in a few ways. There is the head push towards the penis before she is ready and willing to head down. This is lame. There is also the head push when she’s blowing you to try to get her to take it deeper. This is also lame, especially if she has a sensitive gag reflex. You may enjoy that blowjob, but there’s no guarantee that she will ever do it again with that behavior.
- Warn her before you orgasm. Do give some warning that you are about to orgasm. “I’m going to cum” usually suffices. Give her enough time to decide whether to spit or swallow.
- Reciprocate. There doesn’t have to be a 1:1 ratio, since sex is not a scored sport. But make sure she gets head too when she wants it, and that you are as enthusiastic going down on her as you want her to be going down on you.
Remember to practice good blow job manners, and you will find yourself the happy recipient of more of them.
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