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"When I was in high school, eating out a girl sounded like the most mysterious and weird thing. Now that I know what it's like, I laugh at what I thought it was going to be."

How to Eat Out a Woman

If you have worked up an appetite for some oral sex and just need to know how to get started, you have come to the right place. You may want to visit our cunnilingus tips to start, or just keep reading. What follows is all the basics you need to know about going down on a woman.

Tips on How to Eat Out a Woman

• Reassure her. Let her know how much you like going down on women and how much it is a turn–on for you to get her off. The more relaxed and comfortable she is, the better she will be able to enjoy it.
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• Get comfortable. Make sure you are in a comfortable position because you could be in it for the long haul. Going down between her legs while she lies on her back is typical and usually comfortable.
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• Make sure she is warmed up. Don't dive right into the honey pot; take your time with foreplay and make sure you're both turned on. The benefits are plenty: she will enjoy it more, you will be turned on while you're doing it, and she will likely orgasm faster.
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• Work the outside. To start, kiss the areas around her genitals, including the hips, belly, and inner thighs. The more worked up she is before you start eating her out, the more she will enjoy it.
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• Start with slow, light pressure. When you think she is ready, you can begin by flicking your tongue along the inner lips and lightly on her clitoris. She may like direct stimulation right on the clitoral head, or she may just like licking around the clit. Experiment, but start gently and work up to more intense pressure if she likes it.
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• Build in intensity. Experiment a little bit with pace, pressure, and location. Some women like light, quick flicks on their clits; others like long stokes from the vaginal opening up; still others like varied tongue strokes all around the clit. Try different sensations and pay attention to her response.
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• If you strike gold, do not move. If you find a spot that she particularly likes, keep doing the same thing. Do not speed up, do not increase pressure. Most women orgasm after prolonged, consistent stimulation, so if you switch it up, it’s like starting all over again for her.
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• Stop once she’s orgasmed (in most cases). I know, I know, the variables are endless, it seems. For most women, direct clitoral stimulation right after orgasm can be intense and uncomfortable, so minimally slow way down as she’s orgasming or just stop altogether. You may find the occasional woman who likes to be licked through orgasm, so experiment and ask for feedback.
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  These tips on how to eat out a woman will definitely get you started in the right direction. To refine your moves, well ... you'll have to ask her what she likes best.

  
  
  

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