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"Have you ever asked yourself WHY every guy or sex advice columnist tells you to play it cool... don't act too aggressive? Everyone has heard the age old line if you get her number, don't call for 3 days..." |
Overwhelm Her With Desire |
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Have you ever asked yourself WHY every guy or sex advice columnist tells you to play it cool... don't act too aggressive? Everyone has heard the age old line "if you get her number, don't call for 3 days..." ...but has this really worked for anyone you know? And why do men giving sex advice assume that something that might work in the dating world will work in the sex world? ...so let me give you a piece of sex advice that will be the BEST you'll get from anyone. BREAK ALL THE SEXUAL RULES AND OVERWHELM HER WITH DESIREWomen WANT to be overwhelmed - they WANT to be the object of your desire. And a little later I am going to give you specific instructions on EXACTLY how to make her feel overwhelmed, so you can have better sex and get her to go down more. Think about this... The last time you were out on a date or out having a nice dinner with your wife, did you get that feeling inside you that just made you want to take her into the bathroom and hike up her skirt? Were You Overwhelmed by Desire for Her? ...and when all of this was running through your mind and you could feel yourself starting to get hard, did you turn to her and see the look in her eyes? If you did then I GUARANTEE you that what you saw was a knowing and wanting look in her eye. She could sense your DESIRE for her - she knew it and she wanted you to OVERWHELM her with desire. My guess is that she even started to get wet. ...and did you tell her what was on your mind? How you felt? How you couldn't wait to get her home so you could pin her against the wall? How she was your object of desire and there was nothing else in the world that mattered more than pleasing her every will? Of course you didn't. Men have been trained to be in control of their emotions since we were children. That's why most men don't cry... or why most men don't fall in love easy... or why men don't share what is on their mind to their lovers. But let me be honest here guys... By not showing your passion for a woman and overwhelming her with your desire, YOU aren't the getting the most out of your woman sexually and, even worst... You are running the risk of her CHEATING ON YOU with a man who does show his desire for her. Don't believe what I am saying? Still think all the other sex advice writers have it right? Well listen to this: Meredith Chivers, a sexual psychologist at Queen's University, did studies on male and female sexuality and found that "Women want to be thrown up against a wall but not truly endangered. Women want a caveman and caring." I think the worst part of it all is that we all FEEL the desire inside us and we all KNOW we want to share the desire. But we have spent so much of our lives training ourselves to deny each other of what we know is right. Let me repeat... BREAK ALL THE SEXUAL RULES AND OVERWHELM HER WITH DESIREBreaking sexual rules doesn't happen overnight and teaching yourself to be more passionate and expressive can take years... So, where do you start? Like I said in the beginning, I am about to give you specific instructions that will help you overwhelm your partner with desire. These instructions will not only work to make her feel wanted (and the object of your desire) but they have an added benefit... They will make her want to have sex with you more often and she'll do anything you want just to get that sex. Here is where you start... Let's assume you are going out to eat at a reasonably nice place (i.e. don't go to McDonald's) and that you are meeting up with a few of your friends (who are in relationships). The first thing you want to do is plant some seeds here... if you have planned the evening then make sure that the woman in the other couple you are going out with is equally matched to your partner... but not a woman that your partner will be self-conscious around. Why do you want to do this? Admittedly you can skip this step - but here is why I like it. Because what you are doing is setting up a light tension (female competition) that can heighten your partner's emotions. It creates some female competition that makes it so much more exciting (to her) when you tell her how great she looks. Word to the wise - don't even think about passing a glance at the other woman. This night is about your partner (and overwhelming her with your desire) and the other woman is just a pawn in the game. Now that you have created some playful tension and given her a meaningful reward, you really want to let the night unfold casually, but keep two things in mind... 1. Keep your hands close to her at all times. DON'T man-handle her but gentle touch her hips, small of her back, sides of her neck and mid-thigh region. You want to let her know you are there and thinking about her and protecting her... 2. Don't stop thinking about what you want to do with her when you get home. The more you think about it, the more passion you build up inside yourself, the more she will respond - even if you don't SAY anything. ...and here is the final thing I want you to do - and like I said, this is an example of beginner steps, so take it easy on this one at first. Later in the evening, when you are probably about 30 minutes from going home (leaving the restaurant or bar) and you have a burning image of what you want to do to her sexually, I want you to reach over and whisper those thoughts in her ear. Now, you need to make sure that: 1. You look deeply in her eyes and SEE that she is wanting for you to overwhelm her with desire. That when you lean into her, your body is pressing hard against her and one of your arms is pulling her hips towards your crotch (VERY IMPORTANT!) When you tell her your fantasy that the fantasy is about overwhelming her with desire and making her the object of your desire. If she even for a second thinks this is about YOU then it's all over. If you can pull these moves off and overwhelm her with desire then you'll be having some of the most passionate (and dirtiest) sex of your life. She won't want to wait to get home before she puts you inside her. |
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