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5 Tips On
How To Turn Him On

Many women take for granted that men will always be in the mood for sex. Let's face it - sometimes guys just seem like boner machines that you need a manual to find out how to turn them off. But sometimes guys are not in the mood, are distant, or even feel downright unwanted. That is why, ladies, you need to know how to turn him on.

If you've gotten to the stage of your relationship when you pee with the door open and hang out regularly in sweatpants, then you've also hit the phase when you have to know how to turn him on. If he always initiates sex, surprise him by making the first move every so often.

Guys like to be desired, too, so make the move to TURN HIM ON when you're in the mood. Here are five proven ways to turn him on:

Let Him Be A Man. Women can make more money, open pickle jars, and kill spiders, but there's still an archetypal thrill to letting him be manly ... for both of you. To turn him on, find that thing he can do to feel strong and dominant, whether it's fixing your computer, grilling the perfect steak, or tying you up, and let him do it. Play the damsel in distress rather than the cooperative partner (for the moment), and he will get a nice testosterone rush. Just remember - stroke his male ego to be able to stroke his cock.

Give Him Visual Clues. Men respond to visual stimuli, so give him a little show to turn him on. Wear something suggestive around the house and "accidentally" show cleavage. Leave the panties at home when you head out to dinner, and "accidentally" drop his fork on the floor. Take a nude pic with your cell phone and "accidentally" send it to him while he's at work. The hot visuals will get him turned on in no time.

Tell Him You Want Him. My experience has been that men aren't too into subtlety, so if you want to turn him on, tell him you want him. You can be as coy or as direct as you are comfortable with. A whispered "I want you" is as effective as "fuck me" for most guys. He'll appreciate your desire and aggression.

Use the Power of Fantasies. A powerful way to turn him on is to tap into fantasies. Tell him one of yours. For example, in the morning tell him, "I had a dream that you tied me up and had sex with me for hours." Or, when you get home from work, tell him "I couldn't stop thinking about this fantasy I have of you [insert fantasy] while I was at work, I could barely pay attention." Sharing your fantasies is a good way to strengthen your bond and liven your sex life.

You can also use his fantasies to turn him on, assuming you have a good idea of what they are. Perhaps he wants to blindfold you. Great! Leave one out on the bed as a hint of what's to come later. If you don't know what his fantasies are, ask him to share one. The discussion could be a turn-on for both of you.

Touch Him Suggestively. Physical touch might just be the thing to turn him on. Maybe it's a reassuring hug at the end of the day, a morning kiss turned passionate, a shoulder rub, or brushing your breasts against him. If he's particularly tense, sensual touch will help him relax and get in touch with his arousal.

If you are in the mood for nookie, make a move and turn him on - you will blow him away with your passion.

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