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"Throughout my teens, I thought the right guy would just know how to please me. After a lot of practice, I now know I have to show him a thing or two if I want to enjoy sex play." |
THE ORGASM YOU DESIRE
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Have you ever wondered why most men aren't good at fingering a woman? Ever wondered why he can bring you to orgasm when he goes down on you but can never quite figure out the right rhyme when he touches you? Did you ever just want to send him to a class on "How to Finger a Woman" so that he would touch you in the way that you want? ...Well here is the bad news. Even if that class existed, it wouldn't matter. And do you know why? Well the reason isn't so simple, but I will (for the sake of this article) oversimplify... it's because EVERY WOMAN IS DIFFERENT. I know you are probably saying, "yeah, no kidding." But I really want you to think about this fact and how it relates to a man learning how to finger a woman. I am not talking about every woman being a unique person with different life experiences and emotions. I am saying that EVERY WOMAN'S BODY IS COMPLETELY DIFFERENT. For a man, learning how to finger a woman properly is like a rubik's cube that keeps changing on us. Truthfully, it's nearly IMPOSSIBLE for a man to learn HOW TO FINGER A WOMAN properly because each woman we meet is unique and different. ...But here is the good news. YOU CAN HELP us figure out how to finger properly and give you the orgasm you desire. HOW CAN YOU HELP A MAN LEARN HOW TO FINGER?Well, honestly, this sex tip is only for the truly brave women out there. You definitely need to be very COMFORTABLE with your sexuality and comfortable being nude. But if you know how to express yourself sexually, then you can teach him how to finger you and the rewards will be worth any initial discomfort. If you really want to make a man know how to finger you, then you need to SHOW him. You need to be the teacher (of your body) and he needs to be the student. You need to show him EXACTLY HOW YOU WANT TO BE FINGERED. Or else it will take him years to figure out (or, worse, he never will). Let me be clear on what I am saying here. I want YOU to show him how to finger you by taking off your clothes and masturbating in front of him. Female masturbation is totally normal and healthy, and in this case, will also help him learn how to pleasure you. He will likely be so turned on by this AND he will start to see how you like to be pleasured. You can go one step further and TEACH HIM how to finger you. Show him exactly what helps you hit an orgasm and at what rhythm. You might think I am crazy and that I don't know what I am talking about. Maybe you think that men should know how to finger a woman, and that if they know how to finger, that it will work the same for every woman. Maybe. But do me a favor. If you are so bold, ask your best girl friend how she likes to be fingered - ask her what rhythm and pace makes her orgasm. Then ask a few more women (if you can talk to them about such things). I bet $1,000 that no one answers exactly the same. Now imagine what it must be like for a man who needs to learn how to finger a woman, but it is different every time. So take it from me - if you really want to have the orgasm you desire and you want him to learn how to finger you, then next time you're in the mood, you'll actually SHOW HIM how to finger you. |
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