When it comes to foreplay and men, it can be a little intimidating for women. Men seem to be very penis–centric, so when it comes to teasing, it’s hard to know what to do. But men can be just as turned on by foreplay, and the anticipation can make sex all the more explosive for him.
Foreplay Tricks to Try
To find out how to turn him on, just be creative and explore different approaches. Is he visual? Give him a striptease. Is he into talking and writing? Send him dirty messages throughout the day. The point is that that are a lot of ways to arouse your man, so don’t limit yourself to touching him right before sex. Here are some tips to try out when you want to use more foreplay with your man.
- Talk dirty to him. Harness your naughtiest fantasies and start the dirty talk. Tell him about all the dirty things you want him to do to you, and he will be revving to do it.
- Dress up. Men tend to be more visual, so take advantage of that by dressing your sexiest to get him turned on. Whether you are out for a night on the town and you make sure all eyes are on you, or you wear your most revealing lingerie for a night at home, turn him on with sassy style.
- Striptease for him. Another way to visually arouse him is to perform a striptease for him. You don’t have to have amazing moves or a stripper pole to turn him on. Simply push him onto the bed and seductively take off your clothes. Take a cue from strippers and touch him, but don’t let him touch you. He’ll be aroused by your sexuality and control.
- Play a little rough. During your foreplay, don’t be afraid to be a little rough with him. Give hime love bites on his ear lobes and neck, dig your nails into his back, and squeeze his butt. He’ll respond to your animalistic energy and sexual aggression.
- Don’t head to the south pole. Extend your foreplay and kiss and touch him everywhere but where he wants it most. The longer you delay touching his genitals, the more he’ll want you to. And when you finally do, he’ll be bursting with excitement.
Remember, foreplay is about building the anticipation and intensity in your sex life. There is no reason why he wouldn’t enjoy that as much as you, right?
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