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It may seem to you that women are always asking for more foreplay, and you don’t know what she wants. There are a lot of things you can do to enhance your foreplay, but a basic principle is to mix it up. Variety is an essential ingredient to keeping foreplay exciting and stimulating.
Foreplay Tricks to Try
You probably have tried the basics – touching and kissing her neck, breasts, and back. So how do you spice it up?
- Sensual massage. Massage is a great way to relax your partner and get her in the mood. Add a scented massage oil, and you may just be getting things wet for what comes next.
- Blindfold her. Shutting off the sense of sight enhances anticipation during foreplay. Improvise a blindfold using a tie or other fabric lying around, and begin touching your partner with your fingertips along the neckline, back, and chest.
- Dirty talk. Whisper to your partner all the things you want to do to her. But don’t do them . . . yet. Take your time, talk about what turns you on, and tell her how hot she is.
- Take off her clothes slowly. Begin your foreplay with all of your clothes on. Touching and rubbing over the clothes will make her anxious to get them off. Take control and take off her clothes slowly. This will heighten her anticipation and excite her.
- Change the pace. Slow and gentle is a pretty good rule for pacing during foreplay, however it is also exciting when the pace changes. For example, while you may touch her breasts gently and slowly, kiss her next urgently and a little roughly. Keep her on her toes and looking forward to what you’ll do next.
Remember, foreplay is about building the anticipation and intensity in your sex life. Instead of thinking about foreplay as a chore, consider all the ways more foreplay can add variety and excitement to your sex play.
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