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Oral sex is the joyous act of licking and sucking your partner’s genitals. For many men and women, oral sex is their favorite sex act. While an enthusiastic oral sex beginner can certainly bring his or her partner a lot of pleasure orally, there are specific techniques that can be learned and mastered.
We believe in the golden rule of oral sex: go down on others as you would want them to go down on you. That usually means enthusiastically, frequently, willingly, and respectfully.
General Oral Sex Tips
Before we get to all the dirty details on how to give a perfect blowjob and how to eat out a woman, there are some basic oral sex tips that anyone can benefit from.
- Keep it clean. Taking good care of your body and practicing good grooming habits are important to a good sex life, but careful attention to your cleaning your genitals is especially essential for proper oral sex etiquette.
- Have a positive attitude. Your attitude towards going down on your partner dramatically impacts their pleasure. Yes, this goes for both how to give a blowjob and cunnilingus tips. If you seem reluctant, disgusted, or bored, your partner is not going to enjoy your efforts. If you are eager, enthusiastic, and aroused by giving your partner oral pleasure, they will enjoy it much more.
- Get comfortable. You could be going down on your partner for a bit, so it’s important that you’re both positioned comfortably. Don’t be afraid to switch positions in between or to take a short break.
- Be attentive. When you begin going down on your partner, don’t just zone out and do the up-and-down bob. Pay attention to how their body responds to your tongue touch. Heavy breathing, tense muscles, and pulling your hair are usually all good signs. Snoring, texting, and just lying there are not. Take a corpse-like response as a sign that you should try a different pressure or speed, or that you should stop dating corpses.
- Communicate. Talking about what you like and how it feels is the fastest way to improve technique and increases intimacy in your relationship. When it comes to oral sex, communicating is especially important because often your partner is physically distant from you and can’t observe physical cues as easily as with other acts. Let the giver know what feels good and how close you are to coming so that he or she can please you and avoid getting lock–jaw.
With these basic oral sex guidelines in mind, you can move onto more specific oral sex tips and advice in the following articles.
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