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"We were sitting in the kitchen when she just straddled me and the chair, and we started going at it. Since then, I think the lap dance is a hot sex position."

The Lap Dance
Sex Position

The Lap Dance is a sitting sex position that actually gives both partners leverage for more intense and energetic seated sex. To do it, he sits in a chair with his feet on the floor. She straddles him and sits facing him, her feet also on the floor. She has control as she rides him in this position.

What's good about the Lap Dance: She has control over the pace of sex, and he can thrust from below to add his two cents. This sitting sex position allows for deep penetration, and because both partners are using their strongest muscles - their legs - to thrust, the friction can be pleaurably intense. Because partners are facing each other, the position allows for a lot of touching and kissing, and boob visuals for him.

What's bad about the Lap Dance: Not much. The Lap Dance combines the comfort of sitting with a lot of body contact and good thrusting and penetration, so there's not too much missing from this position.

Best for: after a striptease.

Other Sitting/Kneeling Sex Positions

• The Lotus: The Lotus is a sitting sex position that is most commonly used in spiritual sex practices because it's gentle and intimate.
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• The Butterfly: In the Butterfly, she's sitting on the edge of the bed, but both partners ride on the edge of orgasm.
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• Give Me an L: This kneeling sex position stimulates the most nerve-ending rich spots on him and her, so it can send you over the edge with very little movement.
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Types of Sex Positions

Check out these other basic sex positions to find the best variations for intercourse.

• Man on Top: One of the most common sex positions, the man is on top of the woman receiving below.
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• Woman on Top: For when girls just wanna have fun, there are woman on top positions that put her in control of the action.
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• Rear Entry: Feeling primal? Then do it like animals do - from behind. Check out our rear entry positions.
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• Side-by-Side: For when you're feeling cuddly or hungover, there are comfortable and intimate side-by-side sex positions.
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• Standing: When you want a workout with your orgasm, standing sex positions are vigorous and difficult - but worth it.

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