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"I used to be nervous about going down on a guy, but now I know that I am good at giving blowjobs. Just knowing how much he enjoys it turns me on."

How to Give a Good Blowjob

If you want him crazy for you and at your mercy, the fastest way to get him there is usually a great blowjob. So how do you give a great blowjob? A little confidence, eagerness, and practice will go a long way (trust us, he won’t complain). Sure, technique matters, but all the technique in the world is not going to make up for a bad attitude. A little enthusiasm for blowjobs is an amazing start.

The Three A's of a Good Blowjob

Attitude. Forget deep–throating, attitude is an underrated component of a good blowjob. If you have great technique, but hate doing it, he’s going to enjoy it less. If you are, however, enthusiastic and eager to suck cock, that makes up for some lack of skill. Which, with that attitude, you’ll develop in no time. Think you've got the attitude mastered? Well, then move right on to more blowjob tips.

How do you get into blowjobs if you don’t like them? Fake it ‘til you make it, sister. If you initially are afraid to do it for whatever reason (hygiene, skill, gag reflex), start slow, go down with a good attitude, and do what you’re comfortable with. This could be as simple and stroking his cock with your hand and just taking the head in your mouth, or licking the shaft alternately with hand–stroking. Whatever you try, you will discover that you have incredible power with his member in your mouth, which is a turn–on for most women. It’s kind of like how many people don’t like to exercise, but after they get positive results, just want to keep doing it.

Aptitude. Your knowledge of how the penis works and what options are available to you when performing oral sex can set you apart as a blowjob goddess. For instance, did you know that the underside of the head, or the frenulum, is the most sensitive part of his member? Now you do, so you can give that area a little extra attention with your tongue when you go down on him.

In fact, you have a lot of options available to you when you give him a blowjob. Forget the notion that a blowjob is just bobbing up and down on his member. You can vary the speed, pressure, depth, and suction, to name a few variables. You can also choose to focus a little extra lovin' on the head, shaft, or balls, depending on your mood. A little creativity and knowledge can go a long way in making for a good blowjob.

Attention. While variety is the spice in a good blowjob, attention to his response is an important ingredient. Be attentive to his reactions to anticipate his orgasm and to increase the intensity or prolong the pleasure, at your choosing. As he approaches orgasm, you should sense heavier breathing, tensing muscles, and a more engorged penis. If you are using your hands in your blowjob, you may even feel ejaculate moving inside before release. The combination of attention and experience will give you a lot of information on how to make the blowjob experience even better for him.

The three A's will get you started on your way to giving good blowjobs. For more specific and advanced blowjob tips, check out more blowjob tips.

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