Top 3 Foreplay Mistakes
Wednesday, September 3rd, 2008
Foreplay is the delightful opportunity to explore and arouse your partner and take your sexual play to new heights. There are a lot of options for what to do during foreplay; our experience is that the more things you try, the better. However, there are a few mistakes that people make during foreplay that can keep them from getting to the main event. Here are the top 3 foreplay complaints:
1. Not enough. Ok, admittedly this is most commonly a female complaint. But still, not enough foreplay can diminish the pleasure of any subsequent act and leave your partner not quite in the mood. Make sure you spend quality time on foreplay, both during sexual moments and throughout the day whenever you get the chance to sneak in a caress, compliment, or cuddle.
2. Too predictable. So even if you’re game for foreplay, a common trap people fall into is getting too predictable. They either rely on one or two moves that seem to work for them, or whatever they’ve uncovered their partner responds to. It’s nice to have a few reliable tricks up your sleeve, but when it comes to foreplay, variety and surprise are key elements, too.
3. High expectations. While we’re huge advocates of foreplay, if you expect long sessions of teasing and romance before every sexual encounter, you’re bound to be disappointed. A quicky here and there is fun and spontaneous, and can motivate your lover to put in some extra time and attention next time.
Avoid these foreplay complaints, and try out some of our foreplay tips to spice up your sex life!
