Vacation Sex: But We’re Not Going On Vacation . . .

If the soaring gas prices are keeping you, like many others, from vacationing this summer, not to worry – you can still have sex like you’re on vacation in your own home. With a little planning, you can create some exotic romance - DIY style.

• Cocktails. Just because you’re not on a tropical island doesn’t mean you can’t drink like you are. Mix up some dark & stormys or mojitos for a tropical feel. Or, if you’re into more classic cocktails, try using Hendrick’s gin with some muddled cucumber to spice up your gin & tonic, my new summer favorite.

• Food. Grill up some romantic finger foods, like grilled pineapple and shrimp, and simmer a pot of mussels. Or skip the cooking altogether and get some oysters. The sensual experience of eating with your hands and tasting all the flavors will help you slow down and savor the moment.

• Music. Put on some sexy music, or try some light reggae or jazz fusion to add some island ambiance.

• Get outdoors. You may not be on a secluded beach, but you can still figure a way to get naked outside. Have a deck off your apartment? Drape the railing with some fabric, put pillows on the ground, and curl up with your honey without the neighbors knowing. Got a backyard? Get a hammock you and your partner can snuggle up on under the stars. No outdoor space? Set up a picnic on your living room floor, and leave the windows open for a summer breeze. Lightning storms also create a great natural backdrop to some lovin’ on the floor.