While it takes two to tango, sometimes it just takes one to ruin a night of good sex. Surprisingly, there’s a fair amount of agreement among men when it comes to top sex complaints and women. So grab a cosmo, and make sure none of these top 3 sex mistakes apply to you.
1. Being insecure. While there are lots of things conspiring to make women insecure, sex is not one of the times to indulge those insecurities. Men love naked women. Period. Sure, he may drool over Jessica Alba, but he’s happy to have your real body in his presence anytime. Do you have performance anxiety? Stop worrying; it detracts from both partners’ pleasure.
2. Just lying there. The women’s movement didn’t take place so that you can just lie there during sex. Get into it, girl! Own your own pleasure, and watch how turned on he will be by you getting into it.
3. Not being adventurous. Sex gets some bad PR, what with all the messaging that it’s dirty and evil, but that puritanical crap should not keep you from having a good time. Plain ol’ missionary with the lights out gets boring. Don’t be afraid to tap into your fantasies and spice things up . . . for both of you.
A general message you can take from these top 3 mistakes is: be confident! Being confident about who you are and what you like in bed is just about the sexiest thing a woman can do.
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You don’t need to resort to let’s-spice-up-our-marriage awkward fantasy douchy “adventurous” stuff for no reason, surely! If I O frequently I’m happy. If it’s not broke, don’t fix it.
Just my opinion though.
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