Staycation Sex: How To Have Sex Like You’re On Vacation Right In Your Home

Whether the dire economic situation is curtailing your travels or you just need some time off at home, staycations are the way many people are using their vacation days. If relaxing at home is your vacation goal this summer, there are still ways to have sex like you’re on vacation, even in the same old bedroom. Try some of these tips to have hot, carefree vacation sex in your own home.

• Morning Sex. Nothing says “I don’t have to get out of bed for anything” better than morning sex. Morning sex affirms that you can take your time getting up, and helps start the day off in a relaxing way. So start your staycation with a morning shag. And go ahead and fall back to sleep. Because that’s how vacations are supposed to be.

• Ambiance. If being in your usual space isn’t exactly turning you on, invest in a new set of sheets and some candles to up the romance factor and make your room feel like new. Candlelight, especially, does a great job of blocking out the laundry that you haven’t put away so you can pretend room service has taken care of your mess.

• Massage. If you’re used to rushed quickies after The Daily Show during your M-F grind, then use your staycation as a chance to pamper each other. Give each other sensual massages. To add some imagination and island-flavor, put cucumbers on your partner’s eyes and let them fantasize that you are an island pool boy there to satisfy every desire.

• Clothing optional. Imagine you were at a posh hotel and hang out in robes all day. There’s no rush or pressure to get dressed, so keep it as skimpy and comfortable as possible.

• Cocktails. Just because you’re not on a tropical island doesn’t mean you can’t drink like you are. Mix up some dark & stormys or mojitos for a tropical feel.

• Food. Grill up some romantic finger foods, like grilled pineapple and shrimp, and simmer a pot of mussels. Or skip the cooking altogether and get some oysters. The sensual experience of eating with your hands and tasting all the flavors will help you slow down and savor the moment.

• Music. Put on some sexy music, or try some light reggae or jazz fusion to add some island ambiance.

• Get outdoors. You may not be on a secluded beach, but you can still figure a way to get naked outside. Have a deck off your apartment? Drape the railing with some fabric, put pillows on the ground, and curl up with your honey without the neighbors knowing. Got a backyard? Get a hammock you and your partner can snuggle up on under the stars. No outdoor space? Set up a picnic on your living room floor, and leave the windows open for a summer breeze.

• Unplug. Do not check work email. At all.

With a little attention to detail and some creativity, you can have a sexy staycation that is both affordable and relaxing.